Intensity of the Massage
Being massaged by a man also allows for a broader range of sensations. The massage can be quite firm and deep due to the practitioner’s muscular strength. Feeling this strength affirm your contours, sometimes even engaging your muscles deeply, can be captivating and reassuring.
The massage can just as easily be very gentle, alternating between these polarities of firmness and softness.
Because, yes, a man also knows how to be gentle and care for you without expecting anything in return.
Anatomy of the Woman Receiving the Massage
Here too, society holds preconceived notions. Would a woman know women’s bodies better because, due to anatomical differences, a man wouldn’t know how to care for them…?
While this might be true for an average man compared to a woman free from unconscious taboos… it is not the case when entrusting your female body to an experienced tantric massage practitioner! Indeed, as a man whose life mission is to support women in opening to their full power, I help you rediscover communication with and love for your body.
Yoni Massage and Erogenous Zones
As the entire body is massaged during a Kashmiri tantric massage, the primary erogenous zones (the breasts and different parts of the genitals) are massaged just like the rest of the body. Tantric massage may therefore include a more or less extended phase of yoni massage. The practitioner’s expertise and quality of presence allow for the discovery of new sensations. New stimulations are experienced with complete trust.
This contributes to releasing blockages, the liberation of which induces benefits across all bodies (physical, emotional, energetic).
And since there is no goal of inducing an orgasm, the exploration can unfold peacefully. You have ample time to savor all its variations. If an orgasm occurs, it is a secondary effect, pleasant certainly, but it neither disrupts nor alters the course of the massage in any way.
Anatomy of the Practitioner
Due to the particular positions of Kashmiri tantric massage and its sensual nature, the practitioner may experience erections during the massage. Similarly, you may also feel the practitioner’s genitals occasionally brush against your body due to the positions. If this occurs, you will sense that it is in no way threatening and that the practitioner is not attempting to take advantage of the situation.
Indeed, an experienced tantric massage practitioner does not struggle to prevent an erection from occurring. If it happens, he experiences it without attaching importance to it. If it does not happen, it also poses no concern to him. Through mastery of energy circulation, the practitioner knows how to circulate the awakened energy within his body. Once integrated, he can then redistribute it for the benefit of the person being massaged. This is why, if an erection occurs, it never persists for very long. And this in no way disturbs the practitioner’s attention and benevolence towards the person receiving the massage.
In conclusion, the natural acceptance of anatomical differences contributes to reconciling with one’s nature as a sexual being, free from objectification.
I am well aware that this is one of the unique aspects of tantric massage for women that is rarely (if ever) addressed by other practitioners, which is why I share my experience with you so that you are not surprised.
